I was at a bridal shower where everyone got smashingly drunk. The bridal party arrived at noon and, by all accounts, left the restaurant at 9:30 or so.
Everyone laughed and giggled as nearly every woman in attendance got blastered.
Not a peep of disapproval was heard, BUT when one of the bridesmaids – a very heavy woman – ate a cupcake, her cousin leaned over and said, “are you sure you really want that?” Her mom nodded, adding, “have some fruit, Eva”. Everyone nodded.
Why is it okay to be sloppy drunk , no matter who you are, but not okay to eat a cupcake if you’re not thin?