tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post6054750988193258070..comments2023-08-28T02:27:24.945-07:00Comments on I HATE TO WEIGHT... AND MORE: me and my weightI Hate to Weighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17241064340434705588noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-69861053416287905532009-07-31T19:41:45.044-07:002009-07-31T19:41:45.044-07:00You know, you will get their soon. Honestly I used...You know, you will get their soon. Honestly I used to weigh and weigh all the time. I do still weigh in a few times a week, but really, I am over it especially because exercise just puts on weight with muscle and I freak. Now I look at my shape - if it looks fine I am fine.lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05392205573326695683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-11066856489656547482009-07-30T16:10:32.661-07:002009-07-30T16:10:32.661-07:00karen: you know -- you're right. i realized th...karen: you know -- you're right. i realized that i had run out of one of meds and forget to get the prescription refilled. then it was sunday and i couldn't reach the doctor. net, net, i went two days w/out it, and the doctor said that could have played a big role in my anxiety/antsiness. i feel much more peaceful now.<br /><br />christie; i want to get rid of the scale -- on some levels. i think i'm still ambivalent. how did you deal with the fear of gaining tons of weight? thanks for your comments on your blog. so very helpful<br /><br />kim;thank you, thank you -- i love that -- if things have been good, what does it matter what i weigh? i'm going to really think about that. <br /><br />my boyfriend really steps up to the plate, especially when i'm honest and clear.<br /><br />harriet; i don't know how either, but apparently they do. so much of me wants to join them. <br /><br />glad you have a supportive husband. my boyfriend is great -- i wish i could really HEAR what he saysI Hate to Weighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17241064340434705588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-66383174309399374102009-07-30T15:55:14.633-07:002009-07-30T15:55:14.633-07:00I so know how you feel. I weigh myself too too of...I so know how you feel. I weigh myself too too often, it's so unhealthy. And my mood depends on the number on the scale. But husband is the same way - when I was close to 40 pounds heavier he never mentioned anything. As I've been losing weight he makes comments about how "skinny" I am (I'm not), but he is very supportive. He says I'm fat in my head.<br /><br />I seriously don't know how women throw away their scales and never weigh themselves.Harriethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10151061142781327531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-32312215133225414842009-07-30T09:08:45.281-07:002009-07-30T09:08:45.281-07:00I think it's great that you reached out to you...I think it's great that you reached out to your boyfriend. I find that men are wonderfully oblivious to weight. THey pretty much only notice fluctuations of about 30 pounds up or down ;) <br />It is hard to be defined by a number. I felt that way a long time...I don't know where we get this idea that there's a "right" number. I mean, we don't think there's a "right" height, do we? We accept our height, and I feel like we should do the same for weight. If your life has been good lately, who the heck cares what you weigh? I know it's not that simple, but these are things I ask myself pretty often ;)Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12524913753671188764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-14059327485834105832009-07-30T03:07:00.907-07:002009-07-30T03:07:00.907-07:00I feel you on the scale, I hate it too. I got rid ...I feel you on the scale, I hate it too. I got rid of mine and I don't weigh myself anymore. I feel like a new woman after doing that. It is possible to overcome this. <br /><br />Also, I responded to your questions on my post yesterday just now.Christie @ Quit Your Diethttp://www.quityourdiet.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-13747044873829042822009-07-29T19:41:48.065-07:002009-07-29T19:41:48.065-07:00I hope you get that scale free day soon. It must b...I hope you get that scale free day soon. It must be some sort of OCD behaviors that have taken over. I swear, most addictions stem from those neurons firing off wrong in our brains, and making us compulsive about certain things that make us anxious. <br /><br />I'm sorry, girl. I hope you find your peace soon. You are such an amazing person, with or without your scale. Chin up!Karen ^..^https://www.blogger.com/profile/05197114237324824217noreply@blogger.com