tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post4909336338364782523..comments2023-08-28T02:27:24.945-07:00Comments on I HATE TO WEIGHT... AND MORE: the kittensI Hate to Weighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17241064340434705588noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-86114752685337790342009-03-02T14:26:00.000-08:002009-03-02T14:26:00.000-08:00i'm re-reading old blogs, so i can go through and ...i'm re-reading old blogs, so i can go through and change the boyfriends name (his wish, which i respect). i am reminded how much your support means to me.I Hate to Weighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17241064340434705588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-40695053909895454142008-12-21T19:10:00.000-08:002008-12-21T19:10:00.000-08:00thank you, karen. i've carried a lot of guilt for ...thank you, karen. i've carried a lot of guilt for years. this was a terribly hard post to write. and to post. having no "crutches" now, everything is very, very raw. lots of memories are flooding back. my dad and i had almost no relationship, except his last words to me before he died were, "you're all right, kid". that meant a lot. and he did love his animals very much.I Hate to Weighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17241064340434705588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-10109819008290790952008-12-21T17:58:00.000-08:002008-12-21T17:58:00.000-08:00Oh, that is heartbreaking. Why don't parents liste...Oh, that is heartbreaking. Why don't parents listen to their kids when we say we don't want something? Why force it, and then the animals wont be happy? <BR/><BR/>It is probably more that your mother sent them to the shelter, than they got out. How could they get out of the basement?<BR/><BR/>This was a sad post. I don't know much about your relationship with your dad, but it didn't sound good. Kind of sweet that he loved that cat so much that he was distraught over losing her. <BR/><BR/>Sometimes it takes a tiny little mean spirited cat to bring the heart out of a heartless person. He had one thing that loved him only. <BR/><BR/>You were too young and sad to take care of two pets that were forced on you. Unfair to you, and to those kittens.Karen ^..^https://www.blogger.com/profile/05197114237324824217noreply@blogger.com