tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post3299420905916132695..comments2023-08-28T02:27:24.945-07:00Comments on I HATE TO WEIGHT... AND MORE: Self-Sabotage and a Weighty MistakeI Hate to Weighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17241064340434705588noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-72558570843298546032009-05-11T10:28:00.000-07:002009-05-11T10:28:00.000-07:00kim: great, great points. how often i forget the i...kim: great, great points. how often i forget the insides. wow, you really made me think. i can get lost in the exterior, completely lost. i've yet to figure out the balance. thank you for reminding me about what's important.<br /><br />1986chick: i guess it was a compliment, and i tried to take it in. i don't know why the whole thing made me nervous. i really don't know how to be "just right". i've spent my life desperately wanting and trying to lose weight. i need a new plan, you know? hope you're well!<br /><br />Danielle: Thank you. i'm glad you wrote. i've been thinking of you. you always make sense and put things in perspective. <br /><br />i do find the question compelling. i'd really like to figure out a way to make things healthier for the next generation. it's something i'd like to research and work on. first, i need to get myself a little "weller". that sounds like a good planI Hate to Weighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17241064340434705588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-13350818700624563792009-05-10T18:42:00.000-07:002009-05-10T18:42:00.000-07:00Um. Yeah. "You have a perfect figure" is so the ...Um. Yeah. "You have a perfect figure" is so the wrong response to "I have an eating disorder" I don't even know what to say. Sigh. That completely negates any authority this supposed expert claims to have. And your question is so compelling and so important. Ugh! I am frustrated and angry for you!Danielle Filashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17559045917532735660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-49358288981621739422009-05-10T11:35:00.000-07:002009-05-10T11:35:00.000-07:00wow, Im shocked as well. However take it with a gr...wow, Im shocked as well. However take it with a grain of salt, but people are honest and I am sure she meant it. Enjoy the compliments!1986chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18075295448129288258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8381543043245692093.post-9716495086441114592009-05-09T21:14:00.000-07:002009-05-09T21:14:00.000-07:00Wow, I can't believe the woman said that about you...Wow, I can't believe the woman said that about your figure. Does ANYONE get that eating disorders aren't really about your figure?! I'm sure you ARE beautiful just as you are, right where you're at, in those pretty dresses, with the great legs and wonderful hair. I have no doubt. But eating disorder recovery is about believing in yourself, having confidence in your own beauty, inside and out... I struggle with that all the time, even though I'm told I'm pretty and all that. If only eds were as simple as vanity. Yeah right.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12524913753671188764noreply@blogger.com